Wednesday, November 30, 2011
DARE TO DREAM: Where The Dreamers Hit The Road
DARE TO DREAM Because YOU Count!
You need cause to have effect. You cannot have an effect of success without cause. So what is your cause? In other words, what is the reason? Find the reason for why you are going to create the finish line goal in your life and then you will create the effect; manifest the outcome in your life.
Are you experiencing a dream or goal that is not working out for you? How you are doing with this dream is how you do your life. Take a look. Did you hit a failure or discouragement and you’re telling yourself it’s not going to work out and you don’t have what it takes? Are you giving up? Look at your life in a global sense. Where else do you throw in the towel? Give up, give in, and not push forward? Where else don’t you show up for yourself and for others?
Or do you get confused, held back by not knowing where to start or how to start and the swirls of confusion in your head get so overwhelming you back off completely? Play dumb, roll over? Ah well, it was too much anyway.
What is your critical mass point where that dang dream is just not going to manifest?
When you figure out your particular brand of crazy, and how you are falling out, selling short and sabotaging your own hopes and desires – take a nice long look at THAT, focus on that because THAT is your pattern. Take a sweeping look of your life and when you view the rise and fall of your goals (desiring them, starting to go after them and where you essentially poop out) I’ll bet that where there’s frustration, and lack of completion, things not working out (repeatedly) how you want them too – that’s where you’re doing this very behavior over and over – to your own demise.
If you will take the time RIGHT NOW, to figure it out, to admit it, to own it and then concede responsibility – then it’s all good news. Once you know what you’re bringing to the party, then you can do something about changing what you bring.
Now: here’s the truth, and this is the real deal. You Can Do It. You CAN do it. You can do IT. Once you know what’s wrong you can apply your knowledge to figure out how to do it right. Is it your belief in you that waivers? Is it needing help from the outside as in a class or mentor or coach? Is it a skill you don’t currently have? What is missing? Now what do you need to replace it with, which part do you need to repair or replace in order to forge ahead successfully?
What examples can you think of from your life – the poor behaviors on your part that reap poor outcomes? And if you were do to the positive opposite of that, replace it instead with a positive outcome what would that new behavior be? Look like? Feel like?
There, that’s it! Now do that. Implement the new behavior right away and take steps to acquire be and/or do.
You know how some corporations have a benefit package that includes matching funds? If an employee puts a certain amount into their 401K or retirement the company will match that – you put in $500 a week towards your 401K and the company puts in $500 a week.... what a great deal. And so it also is with dreams and goals. Once you get your own head sabotage out of the way, fully align yourself to go for your dream – THE UNIVERSE will more than match you, it will supersede you. You put in 100% towards making your goal happen and the universe will put in 1,000%. What a GREAT deal. So doesn’t it make total sense to go for it? Of course it does, we live in a world set up to support us. Who told you you were put here to have dreams but it isn’t possible for them to come true? Whoever it was – a person or society or noise you picked up along the way, it is up to you, this is your life, you can choose differently right now. I urge you to. Look around there are successful people everywhere living out their dreams in big, beautiful juicy ways. And you can be one of those people. You already are. You just need to believe in that and step into it – that simple.
YOU CAN DO IT. Tough times never hold us back or down because we’re bigger and better than that. We are up to the task. Here’s your new mantra below, starting today. (It’s hard to hear you, please say it louder now):
“I CAN DO IT. I AM CAPABLE. I SHOW MYSELF THE WONDERFUL STUFF I’M MADE OF. I AM WORTHY & DESERVING OF MY ENTIRE DREAM BEING MY REALITY. YES. YES I CAN. YES I WILL. YES I AM.”
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Debbi Dachinger’s “Dare to Dream” radio show is a syndicated, multi-award winning program. It’s been featured in news sources around the world. Author of the new bestselling book “Dare to Dream: This Life Counts,“ Debbi is often heard as an interview guest on other radio and TV shows; in addition, Debbi is an inspirational keynote speaker and a spokeswoman on panels. “Dare to Dream” radio is live worldwide or Podcast on: http://www.deborahdachinger.com (and on iTunes).
You need cause to have effect. You cannot have an effect of success without cause. So what is your cause? In other words, what is the reason? Find the reason for why you are going to create the finish line goal in your life and then you will create the effect; manifest the outcome in your life.
Are you experiencing a dream or goal that is not working out for you? How you are doing with this dream is how you do your life. Take a look. Did you hit a failure or discouragement and you’re telling yourself it’s not going to work out and you don’t have what it takes? Are you giving up? Look at your life in a global sense. Where else do you throw in the towel? Give up, give in, and not push forward? Where else don’t you show up for yourself and for others?
Or do you get confused, held back by not knowing where to start or how to start and the swirls of confusion in your head get so overwhelming you back off completely? Play dumb, roll over? Ah well, it was too much anyway.
What is your critical mass point where that dang dream is just not going to manifest?
When you figure out your particular brand of crazy, and how you are falling out, selling short and sabotaging your own hopes and desires – take a nice long look at THAT, focus on that because THAT is your pattern. Take a sweeping look of your life and when you view the rise and fall of your goals (desiring them, starting to go after them and where you essentially poop out) I’ll bet that where there’s frustration, and lack of completion, things not working out (repeatedly) how you want them too – that’s where you’re doing this very behavior over and over – to your own demise.
If you will take the time RIGHT NOW, to figure it out, to admit it, to own it and then concede responsibility – then it’s all good news. Once you know what you’re bringing to the party, then you can do something about changing what you bring.
Now: here’s the truth, and this is the real deal. You Can Do It. You CAN do it. You can do IT. Once you know what’s wrong you can apply your knowledge to figure out how to do it right. Is it your belief in you that waivers? Is it needing help from the outside as in a class or mentor or coach? Is it a skill you don’t currently have? What is missing? Now what do you need to replace it with, which part do you need to repair or replace in order to forge ahead successfully?
What examples can you think of from your life – the poor behaviors on your part that reap poor outcomes? And if you were do to the positive opposite of that, replace it instead with a positive outcome what would that new behavior be? Look like? Feel like?
There, that’s it! Now do that. Implement the new behavior right away and take steps to acquire be and/or do.
You know how some corporations have a benefit package that includes matching funds? If an employee puts a certain amount into their 401K or retirement the company will match that – you put in $500 a week towards your 401K and the company puts in $500 a week.... what a great deal. And so it also is with dreams and goals. Once you get your own head sabotage out of the way, fully align yourself to go for your dream – THE UNIVERSE will more than match you, it will supersede you. You put in 100% towards making your goal happen and the universe will put in 1,000%. What a GREAT deal. So doesn’t it make total sense to go for it? Of course it does, we live in a world set up to support us. Who told you you were put here to have dreams but it isn’t possible for them to come true? Whoever it was – a person or society or noise you picked up along the way, it is up to you, this is your life, you can choose differently right now. I urge you to. Look around there are successful people everywhere living out their dreams in big, beautiful juicy ways. And you can be one of those people. You already are. You just need to believe in that and step into it – that simple.
YOU CAN DO IT. Tough times never hold us back or down because we’re bigger and better than that. We are up to the task. Here’s your new mantra below, starting today. (It’s hard to hear you, please say it louder now):
“I CAN DO IT. I AM CAPABLE. I SHOW MYSELF THE WONDERFUL STUFF I’M MADE OF. I AM WORTHY & DESERVING OF MY ENTIRE DREAM BEING MY REALITY. YES. YES I CAN. YES I WILL. YES I AM.”
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Debbi Dachinger’s “Dare to Dream” radio show is a syndicated, multi-award winning program. It’s been featured in news sources around the world. Author of the new bestselling book “Dare to Dream: This Life Counts,“ Debbi is often heard as an interview guest on other radio and TV shows; in addition, Debbi is an inspirational keynote speaker and a spokeswoman on panels. “Dare to Dream” radio is live worldwide or Podcast on: http://www.deborahdachinger.com (and on iTunes).
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