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MIND OVER MATTER. We are the masters of our own universe.

Our Purpose Is To Live Passionately – This is Your Moment

Our Purpose Is To Live Passionately – This is Your Moment

We are here to love more deeply, laugh harder, work less, play more, take vacation days, heal our wounds, and be happy.

We’re here to be present, speak our mind, trust our gut intuition, share the wealth, receive our gifts, connect with others, give from the heart, zone out less, tune in more, love ourselves – and know the rest will follow.

When you want to shout, “There has to be more than this,” that’s just the beginning.

Be willing to shine a light on your scary places.
Be brave and prepare to be set afire.

M. Scott Peck wrote:  “The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are deeply uncomfortable, unhappy or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.”

This is your moment, Shine your light. Be a star.
What are you passionate about? How are you living purposefully?

When a sailor goes out to sea, or a captain takes off on their ship, they will only leave after they’ve mapped out their course.  Otherwise they’d get lost at sea. Adrift. The end result could be catastrophic, and certainly they’d never get where they intended to go.  The same is true of you and your dream, you and your goals. You must create a chart. You must create a map. You can call it a Treasure Map, and if you follow the steps and action course from your map – you’ll reach the treasure!

Have a BIG dream, and give yourself MINI goals. Set mini goals you know you can achieve. Sneak away from the zone of the familiar that you’re used to. You can’t do anything new by doing the same old thing. You have to take contrary action and do the unfamiliar, take some risks. You’ll benefit from the momentum of change, you’ll feel alive.

Let go of worry and fear. If you over-worry a dream, over-check a goal, over-care for anything or anyone you’ll smother it and literally send it away. Don’t attempt to control outcomes.  Imagine that your dream and goal is a beautiful butterfly in your hand. You don’t want to squeeze it too tightly or you’ll crunch the beautiful butterfly. You don’t want to be too loose with it or it will fly away. You DO want to hold it gently. And so it is with your dreams and goals. Relax your body. Be present in what you’re doing. Concentrate positively on your vision; invite a successful launch of your dream. Stay present.

Jim Rohn said: “If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.”

Part of making dreams and goals come true is a leap of faith. You have to take a leap of faith. You’re attempting to manifest something that does not yet exist, so choose to have faith that it will exist. When you walk into a room its dark. But you trust that you’ll find a switch and when you switch it there will be light in the room. Right? Dreams are like that too. Right now it’s dark and the goal is not there yet, but if you keep taking your action steps a light will come on to shine on the reality of your dream come true. It will manifest into a space where there once was darkness.

Leave your comfort zone, and instead create a life that feels good and feels right. Don’t play it safe, being “safe” means you’ll regret not trying and end up living a life of fear. A leap of faith will make a high dream come into being.

Do you want to fulfill and live your dream? Do you want to feel happy and content? The cool thing about dreams and goals is you don’t even have to have achieved the completion of a dream before feeling happy.  Happiness easily comes when you step out of the familiar and start doing things that feel exhilarating to you. Showing yourself respect is making your dreams come true. Showing you trust yourself to live your goal means that you’re worth taking the necessary steps to get there, it shows great faith and self-love.  

So what if you encounter obstacles or challenges.  If so then pull back, relax, rethink and revisit, then make adjustments and go back out to do what you’re here to do.

Norman Vincent Peale said: “If you put off everything till you’re sure of it, you’ll never get anything done.”

Your ultimate purpose in life is to experience and express a unique expression of the Spirit in a way that only YOU can.  No one else can take your place or play your role. It’s your purpose, it’s your role, it’s your time; it’s your place. No 2 snowflakes are the same. No two animals, no two plants, no two stars are the same. You are meant to be unique and different. It’s time for you to fulfill your unique path – to your dreams and goals.

Passion + Purpose = Success. Re-Write Your Story

Passion + Purpose = Success

Are you choosing to write the same old story? Are you caught in a pattern that happens over and over again and makes you feel unhappy? Do you want to get out from that same old scenario and make it different? Want to re-write the story AND the ending?

Staying chained to a worn out experience makes us prisoners of the past. By recognizing a relationship, friend, job, living situation, financial situation which no longer serves our present life, we can choose to release the past, let go, and shed old skin.

Caterpillars can’t evolve into butterflies until they come out of their cocoon and shed that old familiar place. And so it is with us, when we are shedding old, unhappy patterns that we’ve gotten stuck in.

Your thoughts influence your words. You words influence your thoughts. You’ve got to change the wiring and the thinking.  Change what goes on in your head and what comes out of your mouth to others and to yourself. Be clear about sending now and positive messages.

Shift your thinking into I AM versus I will be. Insert your desire and see how it feels. Check this out to feel the difference. I AM loveable. I AM a millionaire. I AM a published author on the bestseller list. I AM happy to be alive. I AM taking action to make my dreams come true. I AM worthwhile. I AM enough.  

Fill yourself up with words of joy, love, peace and respect. You’ll be of service to yourself and of service to others.

Take the time to reframe your language into I AM to take steps to all your desires come true.

Enjoy the ride as you move towards your personal goals.

Take a breath. Right now. And say thank you for your breath.  Stop and really look at your food - before you eat it, just be present and in the now.

Look into your pet’s eyes when you pet them. Be grateful for their unconditional love.

Time is precious - connect with family and friends; we never know when it’s our last time to dance.

Play, sing, and share a meal.  Appreciate your office, your home, your sacred living space by emptying it of unneeded clutter items and keep it clean. A clean environment means a clean and spaciousness inside of you. If there’s clutter and chaos on the outside, there’s clutter and chaos on the inside.  When there’s order and peace on the outside there’s also order and peace in the inside.

Bless your body and all it does for you. Appreciate your health and vitality.

Connect with spirit. Reflect that a power greatest than you exists and is working through you, as you.

Step more fully into the next highest version of yourself.
Push through your fears, stop standing still.  Time doesn’t stand still; it marches on – why shouldn’t you?!  Tick, tick, tick. That should be the metronome of your life the tick tick tick of you taking action steps on your way to your dream and goal!  

M.B. Ray wrote: “Begin doing what you want to do now. We are not living in eternity. We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand – and melting like a snow flake.”

Find soul goals that are internally inspired and resonate from a deep wellspring of Spirit. Soul goals bring about internal transformations. They are worthy goals.

 
Change is inevitable, growth can be intentional.

Life is a DO-It-Yourself project.

Quit, playing small.  Start really living. Create a life with passion and purpose and remember that at your core – you are Divine.  Courageously step into your true self; we’ve all been waiting for you.

MIND OVER MATTER: The Intention Experiment

MIND OVER MATTER

That’s a saying people use a lot. When they use “mind over matter” it’s usually when giving advice to someone; it strikes me that they’re telling someone: “I know that your situation is tough, but if you toughen yourself even more you’ll get through it.”

But that’s not what mind over matter was ever meant to mean. Because mind over matter literally means just that:  our minds create the matter around us. Our minds create the physical universe that we experience.  Our mind is mater over the matter that makes up our world. So when you say to someone “Mind over Matter,” really you’re saying ~ use your thoughts to change what you’re experiencing, your thoughts create your reality.

Through science it has been documented and proved that the coalescing of minds affects the outcomes of events.  Scientists set up 37 Random Event Generators and as they collect data they’re seeing the generators have the ability to predict the future. They’re saying REG’s can show where a global consciousness is and is headed. Goggle it. It’s fascinating and will blow your mind. The famous author and speak, Gregg Braden  talks about the generators.

So these 37 different Random Event Generators around the world show that millions of minds thinking the same way send out the same vibes that organize output and bring order. They show that vast coalescing of human intention is actually capable of interacting with physical matter.   Also studies in mass mediation and prayer show similar results to Random Event Generators – where there is focused prayer and meditation on something, shows change to that something actually occurs.  Human consciousness outside the confines of the body is a highly ordered energy capable of changing the physical world.

So since that is true then doesn’t it make you wonder how human intention affects the world? Scientists have already proven that “focused thought” can affect literally anything – the growth rate of plants, the direction that fish swam in a bowl, the manner in which cells divided in a Petri dish, the synchronization of separate automated systems, and the chemical reactions in one’s body.

And if it can be affected positively, it can also be affected negatively based on the polluting thoughts sent to water, and other forms, human thought can literally transform its physical world.

Mind over Matter is not some New Age self-help mantra. The mind has the ability to alter the state of matter itself, and more importantly the mind has the power to encourage the physical world to move in a specific direction.

Don’t just take my word for it use what I’m giving you here and research it yourself. You’ll come out a changed person.

Lynne McTaggart, award-winning author of five books & internationally recognized spokesperson on the science of spirituality, wrote: “Living consciousness somehow is the influence that turns the possibility of something into something real.  The most essential ingredient in creating our universe is the consciousness that observes it.”

Between our ears is the most powerful force, a connection of God, as God is Source so are we. We have a powerful force right in our minds: our thoughts, our feelings, our words. If you choose to harness that power you can use it for immeasurable good. You can decide right now the dreams and goals you’ll create – intend them - and set the forces in motion. You can also work with like minded people to send out like minded vibration thoughts about world peace, about goodness for various countries and people; you can use it exponentially to create miracles.

Lynne McTaggart says that based on the concepts of Newtonian Physics “To think is to affect.”

Starting today, make your own Intention Experiment.  Intend for great things to happen. Intend for very specific outcomes and then go experience it.  See where it takes you. Employ your thoughts to affect your world, and employ your thoughts to make your dreams and goals come true.

We are the masters of our own universe.

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Dare to Dream with Deb Dachinger: Your SUCCESS: A Grander Destiny

Your Dreams and Goals of 2011

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What BIG dream or goal do you have for 2011? 
How do you intend to make it a reality?
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SUCCESS: A Grander Destiny

Happiness is your destiny. If you say you want to be a writer, write. If you want to be a painter, paint.  If you want to be a dancer, dance. If your passion is to be fit and healthy, then be fit and healthy. If you dream of traveling, then travel. Decide to do it. Just get started.

The Time To Be Happy Is Now.

The time has come to ask you, “Are you living a happy life that is fulfilling to you and beneficial to others?”  It’s time to explore a new direction that would best fit who you are.  Follow your bliss. Let yourself shine.

Do what you love. Do the simple things that make you laugh and feel joy.  Do the bigger things that give you a sense of your true greatness too. As you do these things, your happiness will unfold before you.

Give up suffering once and for all and figure out what makes your heart sing.

You real happiness will be experienced in the dream coming true. Begin today – because to love what you do and feel that it matters is to reach your highest level of happiness.

Here Are Suggestions To Help Get You There:

·       Challenge yourself to overcome your fears on the road to achieving your potential.

·       Be an architect. Create a blueprint to design your own destiny and create success and happiness.

·       What is your personal definition of success?  Set out to use your gifts successfully, according to your meaning of success.

·       Have a positive attitude as your daily foundation.

·       Understand the importance of honoring your own core values - live a life based on what matters most to you.

·       Tune in to your passion and your purpose. Use those as your inner GPS and guidance.

·       Keep the fire burning – use your blazing desire coupled with belief and persistence to help you achieve the “impossible.”

·       Happiness comes from knowing what you want, who you are, and allowing yourself to be who you really are.

It has been said that SUCCESS is a state of mind combined with a state of readiness.

Create a happier, more successful life.

Many blessings on your journey!

You Are Capable. You Can Do It -- You Are Limitless and Can Push Yoursel...

You Are More Capable Then You Give Yourself Credit For. You Can Do It – You Are Limitless and Can Push Yourself Further

“You can do it.

You can do more.

Don’t stop now.

Push a little harder.

I know you can.”

These are the words that the teacher spoke into her microphone as we were sweating and pumping our legs on our spinning bicycles in spinning class.

Every time she said this to us it pushed me harder and faster. It made me last. When I wanted to slow down it made me stick with it. It got me to the end.

It also got me thinking.

Wouldn’t it be great to hear that voice in one's head all the time, ensuring each of us that we can do it. Telling us to keep going. Telling us not to quit and keep it up, that you are doing great. A virtual cheerleader in your head. A voice that believes in you and fills you with confidence and the will to continue and finish.

So I offer this voice to everyone. You can choose also to have this voice in your head. Replace the voice that tells you you can’t, or you’re not enough, or it’s too hard with that voice that tells you how amazing you already are; this voice believes in you no matter what.

Picture this… you’re in a courtroom and your big, huge, juicy dream and goal is on trial. There’s a judge and two lawyers and you’re the plaintiff with the big dream. The trial starts and the opposing lawyer stands up and tells the court “I object, this person can’t possibly make their dream come true. They don’t have what it takes. They’re not talented enough, not pretty enough, not rich enough, and not smart enough.”

And the judge says “Objection overruled.”

The judge turns the case back to your lawyer who says “My client must have his/her dream come true -  that’s why they were put here. In this life my client was tasked with doing this particular work or joyful thing in this world. And they are so talented and so smart and so capable and so worthy of having their dream come true.”

And the judge says: “The court agrees. Please continue.”

Your lawyer tells the court that you can do it, can complete it, can make it happen, they know you can, they believe in you. 

The judge shakes her head in agreement.

Now the opposing lawyer stands up with an objection: “The plaintiff is not enough. No way. Not them. Baloney. Never happen!”

 
And the judge cuts him off and says: “All your limitations are overruled!”

She looks back at your lawyer and says “Please continue.”

You lawyer, the defense attorney, addresses the jury and court and says: “This person has a wonderful dream and goal. We all have dreams and goals. Life is very fast. We can make it hard and we can choose to suffer -- or we can choose for it to be wonderful and make our dreams come true. I say to my client: You can do it. You can do more. Don’t stop now. Push a little harder. I know you can. Your dream is important and we believe in you.”

The jury then hands the judge the verdict. The judge reads the verdict: it says the plaintiff shall receive her dream and her goal. Further, we stand behind her and know, for sure, she can do it.

The jury also charges the prosecuting lawyer with stinking thinking and silences all his objections forever more. His penance going forward is to express only kind, nurturing, supportive things to say to himself and everyone else for the rest of his days.

With that court is adjourned!

Choose to envision this funny court setting anytime you have a self-limiting thought and your inner voice acts up like the opposing lawyer to your own dreams. Instead you can adopt the attitude of the supportive lawyer, the supportive judge, and the jury who awards you your dream. Silence that limiting voice and choose only the one that tells you to move forward and encourages you to do it.

Experience the voice that pushes you just a little further and boisters you up - in real life as well. Find someone in your life to buddy up with - a friend or co-worker or someone in a chat room, someone you’ll be honest with. Share with each other what your dream is and how you’ll go about achieving it. Each time you talk be sure to tell each other with sincerity “I know you can do it. Push yourself a little harder and further.” Check in with each other each day or several times per week, and share the actions steps you’ve taken and any results achieved. Be cheerleaders for each other to help cross that finish line and enjoy living the reality of your dreams come true!

Be an awesome jury who always rules in your favor.

Forget all the apostrophe "t's" you use so freely ~ I can't I don't, I haven't. All it really means is I won't.

And remember on the road to creating your dream and your goal:

“You can do it. You can do more. Don’t stop now. Push a little harder. I know you can.”