Your Self-Esteem is On The Rise

Your Self-Esteem is On The Rise

“This is what the secret of letting go is all about. First must come the understanding that we are still carrying around the accumulated defeats of a lifetime, and that these weary weights have only served to make us someone sorry, not someone special.”  -         Guy Finley. The Secret of Letting Go

A dream written down with a date becomes a GOAL. A goal broken down into steps becomes a PLAN. A plan backed by ACTION makes your dream come true.

It’s better to invest time doing what pleases you, rather than to waste time trying to please everyone else.


Having potential simply means that you possess talents and abilities you aren’t applying.

***Your self-esteem is your appraisal, your evaluation and your feelings about yourself. Your opinion of the person who you have been living with since you were born: Yourself.

High self-esteem means you feel good, happy, satisfied about yourself. When you think you are capable of achieving anything. Esteem is when you have good energy, when you are focused, confident and persistent to experience success anytime.

Robert H. Schuller said: "High achievers spot rich opportunities swiftly, make big decisions quickly, and move into action immediately. Follow these principles and you can make your dreams come true." 

How You Can Improve Self-esteem

1. Celebrate Life. Enjoy the moment. Have fun in whatever situation you are involved in.

2. Be Proactive. Be in charge of initiating things to happen. Be the captain of your life.

3.  Lower Your Anticipation. Do not attempt perfection. Do not make a list of hundreds of things to do to feel satisfied. Let go.

5. Contribute And Participate. Try to give first and do not expect anything in return for your services. Enjoy the art of giving (this creates miracles).

6. Affirmations. Use positive declarations to “wire” your mind positively.

7. Be Around Positive People. Spend most of your time around people who you can learn from. Look for what you value in people.

8. Love What You Do And Do What You Love. You have to figure out what it is and do it. The ultimate pleasure is to do what you really want to do.

9. Listen To Inspiring Music. Music is magic and healing. Also listen to uplifting and inspiring radio shows and podcasts.  (Listen to great podcast interviews at: http://www.DeborahDachinger.com)

Remember in life you are selling your service which is your attitude, your behavior. Every single person is a vendor. If you love what you do, if you smile, if you radiate positive energy toward people you meet and associate with, reflect on your attitude, your energy, your behavior – what are putting out?  Your energy is always received by those around you. What energy do you want to put out and receive back? Remember as you put out so you will receive back, so play nice.

10. Act “as if” you are already confident. Similar to visualization, pretend that you are already confident and successful. As you act as if you are feeling confident, you may find that you start actually feeling confident and successful.

Use the following mantras today:

I have a day full of joy and I pass my joy on to others.

I am grateful that I have the time today to work on my goals.

I choose my actions from a place of peace.