Going From McMansion to McManageable
Good things come in little packages.
Southern California is known as the
birthplace of McMansions like the former Aaron Spelling mansion in Holmby Hills
that is 56,000-square-feet. There are a lot of gratuitously huge homes that
have been built here. But here in the Southland there’s now a hotbed of
companies enveloping innovative technologies to streamline houses. In the past years the average size of homes
has fallen 20 percent since its 2007 peak.
There’s even a movement of people choosing great locations for small
houses instead of size, promoting togetherness, and desiring to leave a lighter
footprint on the earth. Some homes are as small as 500 square feet with
optional moving partitions. The designs and creativity are phenomenal, it also
allows people to interact and be outdoors more.
Those who are moving into these pint sized abodes find the process is
teaching them how little material things they really need – and are finding
that smaller is better.
So from McMansion to McManageable: What do you need to downsize in your life and
make manageable? What can you let go of to create a simpler life that works for
you?
Here’s more downsizing inspiration. An entire family downsized their life to live
on a sailboat. To celebrate their first
anniversary Mandi and Scott Leonard sailed a schooner to Catalina Island. They
were avid seafarers. At the time Mom worked 80—hours a week and the couple
thought – “Wouldn’t it be great to live
on a boat?”
The Leonard’s, a five-member family: mother,
father and three children, all boys, took fourteen years to make it happen since
they were very thorough. First they
wanted all their sons to be old enough to swim.
Next they took several practice sailing trips to the Bahamas. Mom
studied hurricane schedules, compiled medical supplies and learned to use a
Taser in case they encountered pirates. Fourteen years later the Leonard’s and
their children relocated from a 3,200 square foot home to a 50-Foot Catamaran,
and left for a three-year sailing voyage.
Now they are sails up for about 10 percent of
their trip and the rest of the time they’re exploring various ports around the
world. The boys are sailboat-home schooled, and the boys research and then alternate
as tour guides on each of the different stops, walking the family through the
sights. This is a family learning the
joy of realizing their biggest pipe dream.
For years they wanted to stop fitting their
lives to their work and live the life they wanted. “Once we decided to do this,” Mandi Leonard says “we never looked back.”
Create Your Own MISSION STATEMENT:
Create a short mission statement for yourself
and live your life in integrity with that mission. For example: “My mission is to create joy for myself and
others by allowing myself to be powerful.”
Or “I am here to lead others
through my voice and by example.” After deciding your mission, live your
life with that in mind. Base your decisions on it. Ask yourself periodically “Am I living in integrity with my mission?”
And as you grow it is appropriate to change your mission statement. When you
live your mission here on earth you develop deep respect and love of self.
Metaphysical
Downsizing
One day a government worker was digging through his office drawers when
suddenly he came upon a magic lamp. He rubbed the lamp and out popped a
genie.
The genie asked, "What is your first wish?"
"I would like to be rich!" replied the worker.
And poof the man was surrounded by piles of money.
Since the worker knew the whole wish process, the genie didn't even have to
ask
for number two before he said, "My second wish is to be on an island with
beautiful women surrounding me and obeying my every command!" And poof, he
was
there.
Then the civil servant decided on his third wish, "I don't want to do any
work
ever again!" and poof he was back in his office.
One day a government worker was digging through his office drawers when
suddenly he came upon a magic lamp. He rubbed the lamp and out popped a
genie.
The genie asked, "What is your first wish?"
"I would like to be rich!" replied the worker.
And poof the man was surrounded by piles of money.
Since the worker knew the whole wish process, the genie didn't even have to
ask
for number two before he said, "My second wish is to be on an island with
beautiful women surrounding me and obeying my every command!" And poof, he
was
there.
Then the civil servant decided on his third wish, "I don't want to do any
work
ever again!" and poof he was back in his office.
For most
of us, simplicity is a learned trait. Address
the areas of your life that are feeling out of balance and make rapid
corrections instead of thinking there is plenty of time left to "wake
up". And remember – you are not alone, team up with people and groups that
will support you - we are going to have to help each other through the massive
shifts that are happening in all sectors of our world.
We
want to aim to become healthy, brave, honest and clear -minded quickly.
Release
the stress and fears that have held you stuck in place and are no longer
serving you. Resolve stress and fear by taking action.
Let the
information IN. The key is to want to do the work and want to
look at yourself and want to respond differently.
On a
physical or emotional level, we can release the McMansions in our life that are
eating up our attention time and focus and go for McManageable instead. We can accelerate new internal programming
and behavior patterns that will let you smile at your old self, set goals and
reach them. FAST!
