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Are You Stuck In A Rut In Your Life?

Are you stuck in a rut in your life? I once heard a rut defined as a grave with no end. When we experience being in a rut it’s generally because we believe it’s safe there. We feel the risk of loss is less if we just stay where we are. Something outside that rut seems risky, and so we settle in. At least we think we know where we’re at. But if a rut is a grave with no end then surely we don’t realize we’re living life in a grave.

Dr. Ernest Holmes in The Science of Mind wrote: “Realization without application is hallucination.” Even though we experience ideas and visions of how we want our life to be, if we don’t actualize those ideas, they’re all for nothing.

We have an instinct to move into the path of what our heart desires. We have great ides, thoughts and visions of whom and what we can be. And then uncertainty takes hold. It’s that fabulous unknown that scares the bejeezus out of us.

To heal any fear that is running your life, learn to incorporate two voices. You already have a strong first voice that is telling you everything that can go wrong if you take a risk. Now you need a new, second voice to parent you through each step.

Have you ever wondered how do baby birds do it? They’re high up in a nest and watch their parents fly away each day to bring them food. Then one day it's their turn. They’ve never flown before. What must it feel like to be a baby bird peering over the edge of the nest to the abyss below? Fearful and scared if they do fly they will plummet to their death or be maimed.  That’s really being out of their comfort zone and the only known which is the nest.

And we are just like the birds who come to the edge and must make a choice – do we follow our urge or do we live the rest of our lives in that nest? Are we paying attention and trusting or are we resisting where we feel we must go?
And what is the greater risk – to step out and do it? Or to hold ourselves back, stuff it all back inside and play meek.

Chicks will waddle back and forth on a ledge deciding if they should return to their nest or plunge, and eventually after several rounds of this they intentionally lean over to the point of no return and surrender to gravity, They flap their wings wildly at first seeing what it’s like to use their wings and how. Successfully having completed one run they are encouraged and more confident to try it again and again until it becomes second nature to fly. Now they know for sure that they can fly.

Be the mom or dad bird for your inner chick that is learning to fly. When you get to the edge but want to waddle back into the nest, be right there telling yourself that you will make it, you can do it, you’re right there to pick yourself up in case you fall, to follow the call that you are hearing inside of yourself. Lean over into the mystery of life. Lean to the point of nor return and surrender and see what wind is beneath your wings. Just like birds we are fully equipped to break free of the voice of fear. Let go of where you are right now and jump into the exploration of your passion, purpose and meaning.

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Are You Playing Small In Your Life?

Are You Playing Small In Your Life? Playing small does not serve us or anyone else.  Deep down you know this.  Deep within you lives the spark of a big dream just waiting for you to let loose, to step into your greatness and the vastness of who you really are. If you told the whole truth to yourself – you’d have to admit that you have the capacity to be all that you were intended to be. ·         What is your big dream?  Imagine the possibilities. ·         Do you have a dream with a purpose? ·         Do you run a business without clarity to how you want it to end up? ·         Do you have a desire for a goal but lack the insight or courage to make it happen? ·         What stops you from hitting your target?  Is it fear of failing or fear of succeeding with something that really matters to you? If you aren’t playing as big a game as you could be, think about this: Who are you inspired to serve? What realized dream would open your heart the most? What can you do to make your life feel joyful? Many people dream of changing their lives but remain stuck in their current status. They hold themselves back by telling themselves their goals are unrealistic, and/or they tolerate dissatisfying situations because they feel undeserving of anything better.  Each of us is born with tremendous potential, but it becomes buried beneath self-defeating patterns. It’s being trapped in a life full of excuses and frustration, instead of actively creating a life that you love. Living Big Living big means your inherent potential is liberated and you're free to realize your greatest dreams. Living large means taking action to override old patterns, release your inner talents and gifts, and empower yourself to pursue your goals.  How are you treating yourself? What kinds of messages are you sending to yourself? What kinds of relationships are you creating in your life? You are here at this time to embrace your greatness and follow your passions. Learn to live each day without limitations.  Make your self-care and your deepest passions a priority. Do one new thing each day. Have new experiences, open your mind to new possibilities and begin to do things “out of the box.” Connect and talk with uplifting people, read inspiring literature, listen to inspiring radio shows like “Dare to Dream” on a weekly and daily basis (http://www.deborahdachinger.com/interview-archives), and post inspiring quotes in your home or office. Do whatever it takes to surround yourself with as many positives people and messages as you can and watch your life open up. Encourage yourself to expand. Take some time each day to tune into your inner voice. Listen to what resonates with you and what you truly enjoy.

Give yourself confidence to take action towards your purpose and start to build your self-esteem. Make what you say to yourself and how you treat yourself all about your dream self-esteem. Tell yourself: "You are amazing, talented and magnificent. You can do this." Keep building your confidence to actively pursue your goal.

Jim Rohn, the Author and Speaker said:


"You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change."

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Your Self-Esteem is On The Rise

Your Self-Esteem is On The Rise

“This is what the secret of letting go is all about. First must come the understanding that we are still carrying around the accumulated defeats of a lifetime, and that these weary weights have only served to make us someone sorry, not someone special.”  -         Guy Finley. The Secret of Letting Go

A dream written down with a date becomes a GOAL. A goal broken down into steps becomes a PLAN. A plan backed by ACTION makes your dream come true.

It’s better to invest time doing what pleases you, rather than to waste time trying to please everyone else.


Having potential simply means that you possess talents and abilities you aren’t applying.

***Your self-esteem is your appraisal, your evaluation and your feelings about yourself. Your opinion of the person who you have been living with since you were born: Yourself.

High self-esteem means you feel good, happy, satisfied about yourself. When you think you are capable of achieving anything. Esteem is when you have good energy, when you are focused, confident and persistent to experience success anytime.

Robert H. Schuller said: "High achievers spot rich opportunities swiftly, make big decisions quickly, and move into action immediately. Follow these principles and you can make your dreams come true." 

How You Can Improve Self-esteem

1. Celebrate Life. Enjoy the moment. Have fun in whatever situation you are involved in.

2. Be Proactive. Be in charge of initiating things to happen. Be the captain of your life.

3.  Lower Your Anticipation. Do not attempt perfection. Do not make a list of hundreds of things to do to feel satisfied. Let go.

5. Contribute And Participate. Try to give first and do not expect anything in return for your services. Enjoy the art of giving (this creates miracles).

6. Affirmations. Use positive declarations to “wire” your mind positively.

7. Be Around Positive People. Spend most of your time around people who you can learn from. Look for what you value in people.

8. Love What You Do And Do What You Love. You have to figure out what it is and do it. The ultimate pleasure is to do what you really want to do.

9. Listen To Inspiring Music. Music is magic and healing. Also listen to uplifting and inspiring radio shows and podcasts.  (Listen to great podcast interviews at: http://www.DeborahDachinger.com)

Remember in life you are selling your service which is your attitude, your behavior. Every single person is a vendor. If you love what you do, if you smile, if you radiate positive energy toward people you meet and associate with, reflect on your attitude, your energy, your behavior – what are putting out?  Your energy is always received by those around you. What energy do you want to put out and receive back? Remember as you put out so you will receive back, so play nice.

10. Act “as if” you are already confident. Similar to visualization, pretend that you are already confident and successful. As you act as if you are feeling confident, you may find that you start actually feeling confident and successful.

Use the following mantras today:

I have a day full of joy and I pass my joy on to others.

I am grateful that I have the time today to work on my goals.

I choose my actions from a place of peace.

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What is Driving Your Success – Is It Inspiration or Programming?

What is Driving Your Success – Is It Inspiration or Programming?

By Debbi Dachinger

Joe Vitale said: “We’re either being driven by inspiration or programming.”

When a dream or idea that excites us comes to us - we start with inspiration then many quickly move to programming. The inspired idea comes up first with a feeling of extreme pleasure and a passion attached to it, and then suddenly negative thoughts pop up -- those are programming (this means the thoughts belong to someone else but we took them on) which puts the ka-bash on our idea.

SUGGESTION: Create a victory wall or board. Put any small or large victory there. I.e., a phone call you made, or a “yes” you received. Focus on your progress. Focus on the yeses.  

1)    DAILY INTENTION: Give to yourself first. On all three levels – give to yourself body, mind and spirit. Meditate. Workout. Listen to inspiration radio and CDs. Fill yourself inside first so you are a full vessel.

2)    GIVE TO SOMEONE ELSE NEXT: Look for how you can give to someone else. Driving ~ let someone go first before you, or at a stop sign give someone the right of way just because. Take a moment to bless someone. Anytime you think: “I gotta get mine.” Stop. Relax. Open up. See how instead you can give in that moment.  Give someone else the right of way. 

3)    LOOK FOR GIFTS:  When you spend time focusing on all the gifts already here and how it makes you feel, do you experience a shift? Peaceful? Are you in gratitude? Look for the miracles and the blessings in your life every day.

Love yourself first. Take good care of yourself.  Take care of others. Love others.

The Speaker and Author, Brian Tracy wrote:  "If you wish to achieve worthwhile things in your personal and career life, you must become a worthwhile person in your own self-development."

You can choose to feel that life is full of good things and gifts everywhere. And from that space choose to give to yourself, give to others, and appreciate every little thing.

In giving and receiving learn to be good at both. Some people are just very good at giving, but not so much at receiving.  You can learn to receive and be in balance and harmony because we need to be able to do both well. Giving and receiving creates gifts both ways - when you can fully receive compliments and gifts from others you allow them a blessing. Some people have trouble receiving because immediately then think – oh no, now I have to pay that person back.  If you have not received a loan from someone, or if there is not an understanding of a job done therefore a payment received then you have received a gift. Don’t worry about paying someone back who has gifted or complimented you. That’s the universe’s job; the law of reciprocity is always at work. Your job is to be grateful, be appreciative, and receive (be given to and accept). God/Goddess All That Is will give back to a sincere giver 100+ percent in return; your job is to allow the gift.

Reality is big, folks, but your dreams are bigger. Literally.