Friday, September 9, 2011
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Deborah Dachinger Interviews Teresa de Grosbois well-known word of mouth marketing expert, bestselling author, international speaker & founder of the Evolutionary Business Council, on Dare to Dream Radio Shares What Causes Change to Happen, How To Spark Change and The Fuel of Positive Gossip. Hear Podcast Now: http://ping.fm/j5ffI
Deborah Dachinger Interviews Teresa de Grosbois well-known word of mouth marketing expert, bestselling author, international speaker & founder of the Evolutionary Business Council, on Dare to Dream Radio Shares What Causes Change to Happen, How To Spark Change and The Fuel of Positive Gossip. Hear Podcast Now: http://ping.fm/0LAH8
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Are You Playing Small In Your Life?
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Are You Playing Small
In Your Life?
Playing small does not serve us or anyone
else. Deep down you know this. Deep
within you lives the spark of a big dream just waiting for you to let loose,
to step into your greatness and the vastness of who you really are.
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What is your big dream?
Imagine
the possibilities.
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Do you have a dream with a purpose?
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Do you run a business without clarity to
how you want it to end up?
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Do you have a desire for a goal but lack
the insight or courage to make it happen?
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What stops you from hitting your target?
Is it fear of failing or fear of succeeding with something that really
matters to you?
Who are you inspired to serve? What realized dream would open your heart the most? What can you do to make your life feel joyful? Many people dream of changing their lives but remain stuck in their current status. They hold themselves back by telling themselves their goals are unrealistic, and/or they tolerate dissatisfying situations because they feel undeserving of anything better. Each of us is born with tremendous potential, but it becomes buried beneath self-defeating patterns. It’s being trapped in a life full of excuses and frustration, instead of actively creating a life that you love. Living Big Living big means your inherent potential is liberated and you're free to realize your greatest dreams. Living large means taking action to override old patterns, release your inner talents and gifts, and empower yourself to pursue your goals. How are you treating yourself? What kinds of messages are you sending to yourself? What kinds of relationships are you creating in your life? You are here at this time to embrace your greatness and follow your passions. Learn to live each day without limitations. Make your self-care and your deepest passions a priority. Do one new thing each day. Have new experiences, open your mind to new possibilities and begin to do things “out of the box.” Connect and talk with uplifting people, read inspiring literature, listen to inspiring radio shows like “Dare to Dream” on a weekly and daily basis (http://www.deborahdachinger.com/interview-archives), and post inspiring quotes in your home or office. Do whatever it takes to surround yourself with as many positives people and messages as you can and watch your life open up. Encourage yourself to expand. Take some time each day to tune into your inner voice. Listen to what resonates with you and what you truly enjoy. |
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"You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change."
Friday, September 2, 2011
7 minutes in heaven: Celebrate Life ~ Your Self Is On The Rise with Debbi Dachinger. Watch this: http://ping.fm/xjQvq
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Your Self-Esteem is On The Rise
Your Self-Esteem is On The Rise
“This is what the secret of letting go is all about. First must come the understanding that we are still carrying around the accumulated defeats of a lifetime, and that these weary weights have only served to make us someone sorry, not someone special.” - Guy Finley. The Secret of Letting Go
It’s better to invest time doing what pleases you, rather than to waste time trying to please everyone else.
Having potential simply means that you possess talents and abilities you aren’t applying.
***Your self-esteem is your appraisal, your evaluation and your feelings about yourself. Your opinion of the person who you have been living with since you were born: Yourself.
High self-esteem means you feel good, happy, satisfied about yourself. When you think you are capable of achieving anything. Esteem is when you have good energy, when you are focused, confident and persistent to experience success anytime.
How You Can Improve Self-esteem
1. Celebrate Life. Enjoy the moment. Have fun in whatever situation you are involved in.
2. Be Proactive. Be in charge of initiating things to happen. Be the captain of your life.
3. Lower Your Anticipation. Do not attempt perfection. Do not make a list of hundreds of things to do to feel satisfied. Let go.
5. Contribute And Participate. Try to give first and do not expect anything in return for your services. Enjoy the art of giving (this creates miracles).
6. Affirmations. Use positive declarations to “wire” your mind positively.
7. Be Around Positive People. Spend most of your time around people who you can learn from. Look for what you value in people.
8. Love What You Do And Do What You Love. You have to figure out what it is and do it. The ultimate pleasure is to do what you really want to do.
9. Listen To Inspiring Music. Music is magic and healing. Also listen to uplifting and inspiring radio shows and podcasts. (Listen to great podcast interviews at: http://www.DeborahDachinger.com)
Remember in life you are selling your service which is your attitude, your behavior. Every single person is a vendor. If you love what you do, if you smile, if you radiate positive energy toward people you meet and associate with, reflect on your attitude, your energy, your behavior – what are putting out? Your energy is always received by those around you. What energy do you want to put out and receive back? Remember as you put out so you will receive back, so play nice.
10. Act “as if” you are already confident. Similar to visualization, pretend that you are already confident and successful. As you act as if you are feeling confident, you may find that you start actually feeling confident and successful.Use the following mantras today:
I have a day full of joy and I pass my joy on to others.
I am grateful that I have the time today to work on my goals.
I choose my actions from a place of peace.
I am grateful that I have the time today to work on my goals.
I choose my actions from a place of peace.
Monday, August 29, 2011
How much progress do you think you could make on your writing with the proper commitment, support and time? Join 2-time published author Karen Rowe for this 30-Day Writing Challenge free of charge. Starts September 1st! http://ping.fm/ZgX7Z
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Find Out How Laughter Meditation Can Change Your Life. Access the joy, happiness and peace that is your essential nature. http://bit.ly/laughtermeditation - FREE CALL w/@PragitoDove
Deborah Dachinger Interviews MARNI BATTISTA (Dating with Dignity Founder) who Identifies Exactly Why or Why not You’re Single on Dare to Dream Radio. Hear Podcast Now: http://ping.fm/yp3aN
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
What is Driving Your Success – Is It Inspiration or Programming?
What is Driving Your Success – Is It Inspiration or Programming?
By Debbi Dachinger
Joe Vitale said: “We’re either being driven by inspiration or programming.”
When a dream or idea that excites us comes to us - we start with inspiration then many quickly move to programming. The inspired idea comes up first with a feeling of extreme pleasure and a passion attached to it, and then suddenly negative thoughts pop up -- those are programming (this means the thoughts belong to someone else but we took them on) which puts the ka-bash on our idea.
SUGGESTION: Create a victory wall or board. Put any small or large victory there. I.e., a phone call you made, or a “yes” you received. Focus on your progress. Focus on the yeses.
1) DAILY INTENTION: Give to yourself first. On all three levels – give to yourself body, mind and spirit. Meditate. Workout. Listen to inspiration radio and CDs. Fill yourself inside first so you are a full vessel.
2) GIVE TO SOMEONE ELSE NEXT: Look for how you can give to someone else. Driving ~ let someone go first before you, or at a stop sign give someone the right of way just because. Take a moment to bless someone. Anytime you think: “I gotta get mine.” Stop. Relax. Open up. See how instead you can give in that moment. Give someone else the right of way.
3) LOOK FOR GIFTS: When you spend time focusing on all the gifts already here and how it makes you feel, do you experience a shift? Peaceful? Are you in gratitude? Look for the miracles and the blessings in your life every day.
Love yourself first. Take good care of yourself. Take care of others. Love others.
You can choose to feel that life is full of good things and gifts everywhere. And from that space choose to give to yourself, give to others, and appreciate every little thing.
In giving and receiving learn to be good at both. Some people are just very good at giving, but not so much at receiving. You can learn to receive and be in balance and harmony because we need to be able to do both well. Giving and receiving creates gifts both ways - when you can fully receive compliments and gifts from others you allow them a blessing. Some people have trouble receiving because immediately then think – oh no, now I have to pay that person back. If you have not received a loan from someone, or if there is not an understanding of a job done therefore a payment received then you have received a gift. Don’t worry about paying someone back who has gifted or complimented you. That’s the universe’s job; the law of reciprocity is always at work. Your job is to be grateful, be appreciative, and receive (be given to and accept). God/Goddess All That Is will give back to a sincere giver 100+ percent in return; your job is to allow the gift.
Reality is big, folks, but your dreams are bigger. Literally.
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Debra Poneman: India, Europe, Meditation, Instructs the Greatest New Thinkers of Time, Shares Principles of the Masters, w/ Deb Dachinger, Dare to Dream Radio. http://ping.fm/8tx9c
Monday, August 15, 2011
What’s Perfect To Focus On Right Now
What’s Perfect To Focus On Right Now:
Right now I’m doing a survey to help get clear for a book I’m writing to help people in moving forward in achieving their dreams. I’m getting great and honest responses to my inquiry. If you’d like to help send me a quick email response; the question is: What is your single greatest frustration when trying to achieve a dream or a goal?
http:wwww.deborahdachinger.com
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Wherever you are in your life, in your dreams and goals ~ are you happy right now? Are you content? Are you at ease? Or do you feel like there’s never enough? Is there certainly not enough of what you want and need – at this time?
Let’s talk about some ways to alter that experience, and offer a method you can use today and throughout this week to affect a change in your attitude, and for feeling peaceful.
There are two ways of creating and manifesting that I have found and both are important and I feel one must be balanced by the other – those two things are action and release. One is creating forward energy and the other is letting go, which are true compliments in a recipe for success.
Action is accomplishing small and big steps towards making a dream into a reality. Without taking steps there is no energy toward what you want.
Norman Vincent Peale, the author of The Power of Positive Thinking said: "Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful; perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all."
I’ve successfully utilized a technique of writing down what I want my end result goal to be and have achieved great outcomes by using the technique. From there I work backwards, as I ask myself so “in order for THAT to be occur, what needs to happen?” I write that answer down and going backwards I again ask myself over and over: “in order for THAT to be occur, what needs to happen?” At the end I will have an entire list of to-do actions, in order, that when executed one step at a time, will create the goals and desired outcome. At the top of the page is my dream or goal and at the bottom of the page is the first step I need to take to get the dream going. Once that step is complete I cross it off and pay attention to the next step, and so on until all is crossed off and I have arrived at the top which is my dream made manifest.
For instance, if my dream is to create a TeleSummit, in order for that to come true I need to have paying customers to attend the telesummit. In order for me to have paying customers I need to advertise and perhaps get affiliates (that’s another step). In order for me to advertise I need social and professional media outlets, contacts (that’s another step). In order for that to happen successfully, I need speakers and people to interview who will attract a large audience people who are well known and offer a lot of new and important wisdom to listeners. In order for that to happen I need a platform for this event that will be attractive to the speakers – i.e., they get more of an audience to know them; the audience will be called to buy their products, It will be a great experience for all. Now in order for that to happen since I’ve never done one of these before I should connect with at least two people (or get introductions to two people) who have successfully completed TeleSummits and find out from them how they conducted the Summit and what worked that they recommend and what did not work that I might avoid? Do you get the idea? On and on I will go until at the very end of this list is the last bullet point, which becomes the #1, first step: Set a date and a theme for the TeleSummit.
That’s action - whatever it takes to get yourself where your passion is leading you to go. Your heart knows what you want. Your heart knows why you’re here. You soul can guide you to do this because it’s calling you to do, create, or participate in something that is imperative for you to experience.
Throughout your taking action and steps learn to balance your life with release. This may feel like it’s doing nothing, except that it’s a blissful letting go and there’s much fullness there. One without the other is not compete, therefore we all need to learn the art of having fun and releasing our dream and goal to the higher forces that lovingly surround us so we can CO-create, so we allow them to do their part. It makes it all so much more magical and miraculous, to work as a team with whatever you deem your Higher Power or Source to be.
To that end here are suggestions for releasing and creating appreciation.
Wake up each morning and think of 5 things you appreciate about your life. Before you go to bed, same thing, name out loud or write 5 things you are happy about – things that are enough.
Recognize, there is enough in your life in this moment. You will create more when you spend time appreciating what already is. It’s about loving what you already have. Allow yourself the time to register the good. Register what IS working. Savor the possibilities. Spend time savoring what’s happening that’s right – right now.
For instance, focus on what you love about your partner, instead of what drives you nuts about him or her. Focus on what you love about your life, about yourself. Deliberately put your focus on all the good. You have the ability to choose to shift your world by doing this.
Believe it or not, in this moment there is nothing to fix. Nothing to change. “I’ll be happy if I lose weight,” we tell ourselves. “I’ll be happy if I get money” we admonish. Instead choose to be happy now. Do you believe you deserve and are worthy of happiness right now? If so, if you believe even a little bit, act on it. Act like you deserve more good by focusing on all the abundance present in this moment.
Oprah Winfrey said: "Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."
Remember: Footprints on the sands of time are not made by sitting down. And happiness is not created by feeling we don’t have. Appreciate all that’s here now and from that place of gratitude strive for more. From a place of already being full allow in more.
Right now I’m doing a survey to help get clear for a book I’m writing to help people in moving forward in achieving their dreams. I’m getting great and honest responses to my inquiry. If you’d like to help send me a quick email response; the question is: What is your single greatest frustration when trying to achieve a dream or a goal?
http:wwww.deborahdachinger.com
============
Wherever you are in your life, in your dreams and goals ~ are you happy right now? Are you content? Are you at ease? Or do you feel like there’s never enough? Is there certainly not enough of what you want and need – at this time?
Let’s talk about some ways to alter that experience, and offer a method you can use today and throughout this week to affect a change in your attitude, and for feeling peaceful.
There are two ways of creating and manifesting that I have found and both are important and I feel one must be balanced by the other – those two things are action and release. One is creating forward energy and the other is letting go, which are true compliments in a recipe for success.
Action is accomplishing small and big steps towards making a dream into a reality. Without taking steps there is no energy toward what you want.
Norman Vincent Peale, the author of The Power of Positive Thinking said: "Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful; perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all."
I’ve successfully utilized a technique of writing down what I want my end result goal to be and have achieved great outcomes by using the technique. From there I work backwards, as I ask myself so “in order for THAT to be occur, what needs to happen?” I write that answer down and going backwards I again ask myself over and over: “in order for THAT to be occur, what needs to happen?” At the end I will have an entire list of to-do actions, in order, that when executed one step at a time, will create the goals and desired outcome. At the top of the page is my dream or goal and at the bottom of the page is the first step I need to take to get the dream going. Once that step is complete I cross it off and pay attention to the next step, and so on until all is crossed off and I have arrived at the top which is my dream made manifest.
For instance, if my dream is to create a TeleSummit, in order for that to come true I need to have paying customers to attend the telesummit. In order for me to have paying customers I need to advertise and perhaps get affiliates (that’s another step). In order for me to advertise I need social and professional media outlets, contacts (that’s another step). In order for that to happen successfully, I need speakers and people to interview who will attract a large audience people who are well known and offer a lot of new and important wisdom to listeners. In order for that to happen I need a platform for this event that will be attractive to the speakers – i.e., they get more of an audience to know them; the audience will be called to buy their products, It will be a great experience for all. Now in order for that to happen since I’ve never done one of these before I should connect with at least two people (or get introductions to two people) who have successfully completed TeleSummits and find out from them how they conducted the Summit and what worked that they recommend and what did not work that I might avoid? Do you get the idea? On and on I will go until at the very end of this list is the last bullet point, which becomes the #1, first step: Set a date and a theme for the TeleSummit.
That’s action - whatever it takes to get yourself where your passion is leading you to go. Your heart knows what you want. Your heart knows why you’re here. You soul can guide you to do this because it’s calling you to do, create, or participate in something that is imperative for you to experience.
Throughout your taking action and steps learn to balance your life with release. This may feel like it’s doing nothing, except that it’s a blissful letting go and there’s much fullness there. One without the other is not compete, therefore we all need to learn the art of having fun and releasing our dream and goal to the higher forces that lovingly surround us so we can CO-create, so we allow them to do their part. It makes it all so much more magical and miraculous, to work as a team with whatever you deem your Higher Power or Source to be.
To that end here are suggestions for releasing and creating appreciation.
Wake up each morning and think of 5 things you appreciate about your life. Before you go to bed, same thing, name out loud or write 5 things you are happy about – things that are enough.
Recognize, there is enough in your life in this moment. You will create more when you spend time appreciating what already is. It’s about loving what you already have. Allow yourself the time to register the good. Register what IS working. Savor the possibilities. Spend time savoring what’s happening that’s right – right now.
For instance, focus on what you love about your partner, instead of what drives you nuts about him or her. Focus on what you love about your life, about yourself. Deliberately put your focus on all the good. You have the ability to choose to shift your world by doing this.
Believe it or not, in this moment there is nothing to fix. Nothing to change. “I’ll be happy if I lose weight,” we tell ourselves. “I’ll be happy if I get money” we admonish. Instead choose to be happy now. Do you believe you deserve and are worthy of happiness right now? If so, if you believe even a little bit, act on it. Act like you deserve more good by focusing on all the abundance present in this moment.
Oprah Winfrey said: "Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."
Remember: Footprints on the sands of time are not made by sitting down. And happiness is not created by feeling we don’t have. Appreciate all that’s here now and from that place of gratitude strive for more. From a place of already being full allow in more.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
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